The best stories start in the middle.
That’s midlife—a jumble of paradox, a stress sandwich, and a powerful opportunity to become a deeper, truer version of you.
There is a lifetime between forty and finished. You’re right on time.
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Beyond reinvention: Living authentically
We love stories of midlife reinvention. The person who published their first novel after 40, the one who became a triathlete at 60, or who left her corporate job to start a sheep farm at 50. Why? What feels important about making changes in the second half of life? Why is it so inspiring?
More than reinvention, I think we admire authenticity and moxie.
Authenticity means moving past the “shoulds,” getting to know ourselves outside our various roles, and noticing, accepting, and responding to our real wants and needs.
It takes moxie to be authentic in a world that tries to tell us exactly who we need to be in order to be “good.” And it takes even more moxie to do it in the second half of life when so many messages tell us that the best is behind us.
It also appeals because even if we don’t anticipate headline-making changes in our future, most of us want to feel that we’re being true to ourselves in our daily lives and are the authors of our stories.
But in the thick of midlife, with all its complexities, transitions, and challenges, it can feel overwhelming to imagine doing anything different, being different. It’s precisely because of all those things that this work is so valuable. It helps you make intentional choices about how you spend your energy, time, attention, and resources. And it expands your pool of possibilities to create options you never knew you had.
This is not about checking off goals and mindset hacks. This work is deep, immersive, expansive, and freeing.
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Programs
I offer coaching that fits your needs. Many clients work with me over time for support with a project, a life or business change, or a creative goal. If you are going through a big change or starting something new, one-on-one coaching can help you explore your options, tackle challenges, and move forward with purpose.
NEW!
Map of Now Workshop
Map of Now is a unique and exciting collaboration between renowned painter Johanna Reynolds and certified coach Sara Smeaton, blending the worlds of art, creative expression, and personal growth.
When: Sunday, November 16th, 2:00–5:00 PM
Where: 77 Florence St, Unit 307, Toronto, ON M6K 1P4
Cost: $250 + HST
SOLD OUT! Sign up to the waitlist for the next workshop.
The Creative Midlife Review
The Creative Midlife Review is a workbook filled with creative prompts and a process for assessing what thoughts, patterns, habits and behaviours you want to keep, tweak, or let go.
It is meant to help you see things from different perspectives so you can take stock and move forward with intention.
Download your copy now and start working through it. If you want to meet to deepen what you’ve learned you can book a private session.
This 46-page digital workbook costs $29.
Resources
Podcasts & Press
Sara is one of the go-to thought leaders on midlife. Listen to her various podcast guest appearances and read the articles she's been featured in.
Unearth the answers to your midlife questions
The answers are closer than you might think.
Midlife Manifesto
This is my stake in the ground for what I believe is true about midlife. If it resonates with you, print and post it somewhere to keep you inspired and feeling powerful.
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